Therapists’ mental health shouldn’t be swept under the rug.
I’m Ekaterina Kapoustina, therapist for therapists who want support that goes deeper than focusing on their clinical skills.
Not just for the sake of your profession, but to experience care yourself.
I provide a space for therapists to explore themselves relationally, not rationally, whether it’s couples therapy or process groups.
We go deeper than supervision to explore your own triggers, aversions, and roadblocks when it comes to relationships through here-and-now oriented work.
When we openly talk about our own struggles, we realize that we don’t have to put on a front to prove how “strong” we are, or that we “have it all together.”
It allows for us to be human first.
What if you put yourself first?
We all go into the field because something personal resonates with us
I, for one, went into working with couples and groups because the interpersonal realm is something I struggled with growing up. My own experiences with overthinking social situations, perfectionism, comparison, vulnerability, and finding holes within the mental health field have shaped my values and the services that I provide. To this day, I sometimes still feel like Bambi, stumbling around as I try to understand my own socio-emotional landscape.
Poorly executed experiential group exercises in graduate school also piqued my interest in exploring the here-and-now process, and I found myself questioning how I came across to others. This has become a lifelong expedition, and I continue to seek out training and personal group therapy to better understand what I bring to each interaction, be it personal or professional.
I highlight this because I know I’m not the only one who choose an area that resonates closely with my own lived experiences.
As therapists, the personal doesn’t just get erased the moment we step into session. When we work so closely with clinical concerns that mimic our own wounds, we need to keep them in check through supervision and personal therapy so it doesn’t impact our client outcomes.
We owe it to ourselves and our clients to model curiosity and face the parts of ourselves that we may not want to touch.
Isn’t it ironic?
When I think about the field of psychotherapy, the song “Ironic” by Alanis Morissette is the first thing that comes to my mind.
Why does our field preach for ending mental health stigma, but the very people who help others only reach out for help when they’re at the end of their ropes?
Why is it that most therapists will admit their own personal pain brought them to this field, yet this exact lived experience is never explore and normalized in grad school?
A field that doesn’t make room for helpers to be human with their flaws is not sustainable.
I believe the purpose of practicing self-care is not AVOIDING negative consequences (like burn out). It should be done to make life feel more VIBRANT.
Put on your own oxygen mask before helping others
There are enough providers out there offering great supervision and consultation that focuses on how to provide better therapy.
I want to create a soft landing place for therapy providers like you to openly talk about your own worries, to challenge the people-pleasing tendencies, and explore your own internal activations.
When we move beyond comfort zones, we’re able to experience more closeness, connection, love, and safety. And re-write those pesky narratives.
Leaning into discomfort is how you grow.
That applies to us therapists just as much as it does to anyone else.
How I pass my time outside of sessions & things I daydream about:
I love drinking white needle tea so much that I have a temperature-control kettle to make sure I get to taste the finest notes. Didn’t know those existed, did ya!? I highly recommend BTW.
What would I be doing if I wasn’t a therapist? Probably move away to a tropical island and open up my own clothing boutique…ask me if I know how to sew!
On vacation, my DSLR is strapped to my hip… photos to never be sorted through because I get overwhelmed and overstimulated when picking my top pictures out of hundreds that look exactly the same.
You’ll catch me re-watching: Schitt’s Creek, Gilmore Girls & The Two Broke Girls.
What makes me qualified, besides my passion for helping helpers?
I’m a Registered Psychotherapist with specialized training in Emotional Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT). I view all relational interactions from a systemic and attachment framework. My practice is informed by Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and the Gottman Method.
I fell in love with group work during my internship, when I first had the opportunity to co-facilitate a group supporting college women with body image concerns. That grew to leading groups on my own for the last 7 years, ranging from psychoeducational and skills-based groups to process groups, which is the only type of group I run these days.
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Registered Psychotherapist #17769 (Ontario, Canada)
Mental Health Counselor #979 (Hawai’i)
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MA Counseling Psychology (specialization in mental health counselling) from University of Hawaii at Hilo (2020)
BA in Psychology from University of Toronto (2015)
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Emotionally Focused Therapy Externship (2019)
Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy Level 1 (2021)
Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (2021)
Solution Focused Brief Therapy Level 1 (2021)
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (2023)
ASIST (2023)
Love Beyond Agreements: Working Effectively with the Complexities of Non-Monogamy (2024)
Consensual Non-Monogamy Level 1: Clinical Skills & Interventions (2025)
Group Therapy Certificate Course: Evidence-Based Strategies to Develop and Facilitate Dynamic, Purposeful and Effective Group Therapy (2025)
Assessing and Treating Sex Issues in Psychotherapy Level 1 (2026)
Stop hiding behind “I’m fine”
If you often find yourself slowly building resentment because no one asks how you’re actually doing…I’m here for you.
Let’s work together to find a balance between supporting others and allowing others to see the side of you that hardly gets seen. Just like your clients, you deserve to feel cared for!